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Newsletter Volume 32 - December 04, 2002
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With the rising tide of youth violence and bullying, the Words Can Heal mission has never been more vital to safeguarding America's children.

As a solution to the increasing problems of youth violence, the Words Can Heal awareness and education campaign underscores the need to teach youths to use language that is positive, free from name-calling, bullying, threats, taunts, slander and teasing. The program is educational, while increasing motivation for youth in their public lives by offering them opportunities to help navigate their own involvement with emotional violence and preventing discrimination.

  • 160,000 children skip school each day because of intimidation by their peers. (The National Education Association)

  • Two-thirds of young people have been teased or gossiped about in a mean way at least once in the past month. (Study conducted by Families and Work Institute and funded by The Colorado Trust - study polled more than 1,000 youths in fifth through twelfth grades.) Additionally, almost one-third of 6th to 10th graders - 5.7 million children nationwide - have experienced some kind of bullying. (National Institute of Health study released in the Journal of the American Medical Association.)

  • There have been 37 serious violent attacks in schools in 25 years. (Examined by the U.S. Department of Education and the Secret Service during a 25-year period, including Columbine High School 1999.)
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Newsletter Volume 32
Encouraging Words
December 04, 2002

A twenty-four-year-old widow whose husband had recently been killed in an automobile accident, leaving her with three small children, was asked which words of consolation helped her most and which helped her least. She replied that the words which helped her least were blithe statements of nickel-and-dime philosophy. The words which helped her the most were from a friend who said: “You have the strength to get through this.”

Encouraging words are so simple to say, but they can change the course of a person’s life.

Many successful people reminiscence about a teacher in elementary or high school who said to them: “You could really become great if you try.”

Many successful athletes remember a coach who said to them: “You have what it takes to be a champion.”

Many successful musicians, artists, and actors attribute their proficiency to a teacher or mentor who said to them: “You have remarkable talent.”

A classic study showed that the elementary school children who get the highest grades are not those with the highest IQ, but rather those with the highest self-esteem. And our self-esteem, as we all know, derives in large measure from at least one person who esteemed us and let us know it.

How to Give the Gift of Encouraging Words

  • Give only sincere, truthful encouragement. “You’re beautiful,” said to a homely girl will be brushed off as a false compliment. “You have beautiful hair,” said to the same girl may boost her confidence in her appearance. Don’t tell a child who screeches on the violin that he has the potential to become the next Itzhak Pearlman; do tell him, “Your perseverance is a great quality. It will help you succeed in many areas.”

  • Be generous with encouraging words, especially to your family members. Don’t worry about telling your children too often what their strong points are. Young children form their self-definition based on their parents’ assessment of them. “You’re so kind and generous” will produce kind and generous children. Tell your spouse every day how wonderful/thoughtful/hard-working/or responsible he or she is.

  • Don’t underestimate how much friends and co-workers need to hear encouraging words. Even someone who projects an image of self-assurance undoubtedly has bad days, disappointments, and personal challenges. One successful architect had just had a major project she designed rejected by her clients. Her co-worker saying, “I think your design is brilliant,” saved her from plunging into depression. You never know how timely your words of encouragement may be.

  • Did you ever fantasize that if you had a million dollars, one day you would just walk down the street handing out dollar bills to everyone you passed? Well, you have a million encouraging words. Pass them out generously. Today. They won’t run out.

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